THE
PARISH NEWS
HAYWARD-TRONDHJEM LUTHERAN PARISH
Rev. John Malm, Pastor
373-8479 – Office
373-3966 – Home
E-mail – hlctlc@msn.com
May,
2009
Vol.14,
No. 5
JOIN US FOR
THE HAPPINESS
EMPORIUM
will be coming to
MARK YOUR CALENDARS AND COME AND JOIN US FOR AN UPLIFTING TIME OF
WORSHIP AND MUSIC
“SHAR
![]()
DEAR MEMBER OF THE HAYWARD-TRONDHJEM LUTHERAN
PARISH:
I am using the occasion of my 65th
birthday (April 18th) to announce to you and other members of the
parish that Sharon and I have made our decision to retire from active ministry
this fall. Therefore, I will be ending
my call to serve as your pastor on September 30th of this year of
2009. My last day in the pulpit will be
on August 30th, after which we will take accrued vacation and
continuing education time for our transition to retirement in the city of
You need to know that this decision
does not reflect on anything negative happening within the parish, or for that
matter, in our personal lives. As far as
we are concerned, our experience with you in ministry over these last
seven-plus years has been great. You
have been very gracious towards us and supportive of us, and we cannot thank
you enough for allowing us the privilege to be in ministry with you. Having said that, we do
feel that the time is right for us to move on – we into retirement, and you
into continuing mission and ministry with new leadership into the future.
Our decision to retire is not at all
an easy or recent decision. Some know
that we have been mulling this over for some time. With that in mind, we knew that we wanted to
retire to the area of
This is all a way of saying that
what has developed for us has affirmed to us that the Lord is with us and
guiding us in this decision we have made to move into retirement. It also affirms for us that the Lord will
also be with you and this parish in guiding you through this coming transition
to new leadership, mission and ministry in the coming years. God has been faithful to you in this in the
past and God will be faithful to you into the future. That is ever God’s promise.
Meanwhile, Sharon and I cannot thank
you enough for everything we have received from you in these seven years. We pray that the Lord has also blessed you in
some small measure through our ministry with you. Our ministry is not yet over with you, for it
will continue on through this summer. We
ask for your continued prayers and support as we continue to work together, and
as we help one another look out into the future shape of our lives and ministry
in this marvelous
God’s Grace and Peace go with you.
Pastor John and Sharon Malm
OPPORTUNITIES FOR
HOLY COMMUNION
May 3 – Easter IV -
Confirmation
May 31 - Pentecost

CONFIRMATION SUNDAY COMING
On Sunday, May 3 five students from the
Hayward/Trondhjem Parish will be confirmed.
From Trondhjem Lutheran Ethan Severtson, Reed Thostenson and Allison
Wangen will be confirmed and from Hayward Lutheran Mackenzie Berhow and Tate
Tufte will be confirmed.
UPCOMING EVENTS
The “Big Trip”! The
ELCA Youth Gathering next July 20th to 28th. Where else than historical
YOUNG PEOPLE TO GRADUATE
FROM HIGH SCHOOL
This year there are two
young people from the Hayward/Trondhjem Parish who will be graduating from High
School. Congratulations to Cortney
Thostenson from Trondhjem Lutheran and Samantha Anderson from
THANK
YOU to
STEVE & KAYE TUFTE and BRIAN & NANCY BERHOW for “heading up” the “crew”
who planned, prepared and served the delicious breakfast on Easter
Sunday. Thank you also to the parents
and youth who helped with the serving and cleaning up. GREAT JOB!!

THANK YOU to the
members of the Hayward/Trondhjem Choir for their music on Easter Sunday and for
giving of their time for all of the practices.
Another big thank
you to Vern Frydenlund for his excellent trumpet accompaniment for
the choir.
MAKING
THE OLD CHIMES NEW AGAIN
If
you have been at worship at Hayward Lutheran recently, you may have noticed
that
MISSIONARY HARTWIG HAS
BREAK-IN AT THEIR HOME
(The following letter was
received from the Hartwigs)
Greetings in the name of Christ. We give thanks for you, our friends, and for
the support and prayers we continue to receive from so many.
Some of you know that we recently had a break-in at our
home. I was away, and ten armed men
broke in at
A few thoughts and experiences from these recent weeks:
The most valuable thing
stolen from us was our peace. In hard
times, what is your Psalm of comfort?
This verse from Psalm 90 has struck us:
“Teach us to number our days aright, that we may gain a heart of
wisdom.” Healing is not any fun.
My mother is visiting for her own work with education
here (good timing for us!). A night
guard at the place she stays gave condolences to us, through her, and cautioned
that “if we hold these things in our heart, God is not able to come in.” Profound words: some experiences will tend to “harden our
hearts”, somehow proving the cynicism of the larger world. We can nurse that cynicism, or we can make a
few choices. A good friend observed to
us that for some weeks after his family experienced a similar break-in, every
face they saw on the road appeared angry and suspicious. He came to realize that people were mirroring
his own expressions. When he made the
effort to smile, unnatural as that felt, the warmth and generosity of the faces
returned. As we heal, some choices come.
Some perspective from a home visit during a recent work
trip to the far south, near the
In may we will both be in the
States briefly for Heidi’s college graduation from
Help us in praying for a heart of wisdom in the time
ahead.
Kristopher and Rebecca
P.S. One reason to be late with this notice is
that our e-mail addresses got taken along with the computer stuff. It will take us awhile to sort it all out.
TRONDHJEM
NEWS
MAY
ASSIGNMENTS
Altar Guild Coffee Servers Communion Assistants
Shirley Kraushaar June
7 – Mark & Debra Brekke Mike
Severtson & Mark Brekke
Acolyte/Ushers
May
3 – Ethan Severtson May 17 –
Allison Wangen
May
10 – Madalyn Wangen May 24 – Reed
Thostenson
May 31 – Anna Severtson
MAY
BIRTHDAYS MAY
ANNIVERSARIES
May 8 – Linda Kraushaar May 28 – Emily Brekke May 26 – Orin &
Brenda Krause
May
13 – Reed Thostenson May 30 –
Maxine Amacher
May
20 – Scott Kraushaar May 31 –
Elna Severtson
May
26 – Elaine Lukes May 31 –
Ethan Severtson
May
28 – Ruth Lukes
TRONDHJEM FINANCIAL REPORT
1st
Quarter Income - $9,512.21 Building
Fund - $16,299.31
1st
Quarter Expenses - $9,403.78 Organ
Fund - $491.75
Balance
HAYWARD NEWS
We the people of
VISION STATEMENT
As a
community of faith in Jesus Christ, we will demonstrate care and compassion for
one another and also to a world in much need.
God’s Word and the Holy Sacraments are central to our life of
faith. As we grow and are nourished by
these, we will bring the good news of God’s forgiveness, life and salvation to
those around us.
MAY
ASSIGNMENTS
Altar Guild Coffee Servers Ushers
Sharon Seidel & Carolyn Matson May 3 – Todd & Cheryl Enderson *Paul
& Barb Miller
May
10 – Paul & Barb Miller James
& Judy Becker
May
17 – Jim &
Judy & Richard Olson LeMoyne Eggum
May
24 – Neal, Jean & Katherine Skaar
May
31 – Vern & Bev Lunde
Communion Assistants Acolyte/Ushers Faye
Learn & Neal Skaar May 3 – Kadie & Kasie
Habana
May 10 – Anna Englin &
Lindsay Nelson
May
17 – Bethany Tennis & Shelby Eggum
May
24 – Logan & Tate Tufte
May
31 – Mitchell & Jay Skaar
SUMMER SCHEDULE BEGINS MAY 24TH.
TRONDHJEM WORSHIP –
MAY
BIRTHDAYS MAY
ANNIVERSARIES
May 1 – Jean Thisius May 25 – Vern
Frydenlund May 1 – Jack
& Jean Thisius
May 3 – Mark Bolinger May 27 – Tristan Tufte May 4 – Paul &
Diane Ladlie
May 5 – Kay Smith May 27 – Laurel
Heimsness May 5 –
Darrell & Vickie Storlie
May 8 – Kim Woitas May 28 – Anna
Englin May 9 –
Brian & Nancy Berhow
May 12 –
May 15 – Jacob Berhow May 30 – Doris Westland May 10 – Alex & Kisti
Skaar
May 21 – Carolyn Matson May 30 – Curt Larson May 14 – Scott &
Kim Woitas
May 22 – Barbara Schroeder May
30 – Tammy Eggum May
23 – Dale & Millie Westland
May 23 – Cammie Tennis May 31 – Thomas Westland
MEMORIALS
Worship & Music Fund (Chimes)
In memory of JACK HANSON by
M/M Richard Hanson
In memory of PALMER “BUD”
GRANHOLT by M/M Paul Westland, M/M Dale Westland
General Fund
In memory of PALMER
GRANHOLT by M/M Chris Skaar
DALE & MILLIE CELEBRATE THEIR 50TH WEDDING
ANNIVERSARY
Congratulations
to Dale & Millie Westland on
their upcoming 50th Wedding Anniversary. The family is holding an Open House for them
on Saturday, May 2nd from
WELCA NEWS
PURPOSE STATEMENT
As a community of women created in the image of God, called to
discipleship in Jesus Christ, and empowered by the Holy Spirit, we commit
ourselves to grow in faith, affirm our gifts, support one another in our callings, engage in
ministry and action, and promote healing and wholeness in
the church, the society and the world
JOIN
US FOR THE WELCA SPRING FLING!!
The Hayward WELCA will host their annual SPRING FLING on Wednesday, May 6th beginning at
ALTAR
GUILD
WOULD YOU LIKE TO CONTRIBUTE FRESH FLOWERS?
Fresh
flowers for the altar are a beautiful addition to our worship service. If you wish to furnish flowers, all you need
to do is call the Altar Guild president, Marlene Thompson (373-3895). The Guild will purchase and display the
flowers for you, and if you wish, will put an acknowledgement in the Sunday
bulletin. Cost of the flowers is usually
about $20. Your generosity and support
are greatly appreciated. Thank you.
THIS
‘N’ THAT
THE SNEEZE
They walked
in tandem, each of the ninety-two students filing into the already crowded
auditorium. With their rich maroon gowns flowing and the traditional caps, they
looked almost as grown up as they felt.
Dad’s
swallowed hard behind broad smiles and Moms freely brushed away tears.
This class
would NOT pray during the commencement – not by choice,
but because of a recent court ruling prohibiting it.
The
principal and several students were careful to stay within the guidelines
allowed by the ruling. They gave
inspirational and challenging speeches, but no one mentioned divine guidance
and no one asked for blessings on the graduates or their families.
The speeches
were nice, but they were routine, until the final speech received a standing
ovation.
A solitary
student walked proudly to the microphone.
He stood still and silent for just a moment, and then it happened. All 92
students, every single one of them, suddenly SNEEZED!!! The student on stage simply looked
at the audience and said, “GOD BLESS
YOU, each and every one of you!”
And he walked off stage.
The audience
exploded into applause. This graduating
class had found a unique way to invoke God’s blessing on their future with or
without the court’s approval.
WHY GOD MADE MOMS
(Answers given by 2nd grade school children
to the following questions)
WHY DID GOD MAKE MOTHERS:
She’s the only one
who knows where the scotch tape is.
Mostly to clean the
house.
To help us out of
there when we were getting born.
HOW DID GOD MAKE MOTHERS?
He used dirt, just
like for the rest of us.
Magic plus super
powers and a lot of stirring.
God made my Mom
just the same like He made me. He just
used bigger parts.
WHAT INGREDIENTS ARE MOTHERS MADE
OF?
God makes mothers
out of clouds and angel hair and everything nice in the world and one dab of
mean.
They had to get
their start from men’s bones. Then they
mostly use string, I think.
WHY DID GOD GIVE YOU YOUR MOTHER
AND NOT SOME OTHER MOM?
We’re related.
God knew she likes
me a lot more than other people’s moms like me.
WHAT KIND OF LITTLE GIRL WAS YOUR
MOM?
My mom has always
been my mom and none of that other stuff.
I don’t know
because I wasn’t there, but my guess would be pretty bossy.
They say she used
to be nice.
WHAT DID MOM NEED TO KNOW ABOUT
DAD BEFORE SHE MARRIED HIM?
His last name.
She had to know his
background. Like is he a crook? Does he get drunk on beer?
Does he make at
least $800 a year? Did he say NO to
drugs and YES to chores?
HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY, MOMS!!
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