THE PARISH NEWS
HAYWARD-TRONDHJEM LUTHERAN PARISH
Interim Pastor
Dick Spande
373-8479 – Office
377-8214 – Home
Church e-mail – hlctlc@msn.com
Pastor’s e-mail
dbspande@deskmedia.com
Vol. 14, No18
June, 2010
December, 2008 Vol.13, No. 12
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GOOD NEWS!!
December is our chance, as the church,
to get the jump on the rest of the world, for this is when we begin our NEW
YEAR. As we begin this New Year, we
focus on some new scripture lessons, as we focus on the Gospel of Mark, along
with other lessons from both the Old and New Testaments. Mark is the condensed version of the story of
Jesus; it comes at us quickly, ever using that word “immediately.” Mark does not even bother to give us the
birth stories of Jesus, leaving that to Matthew and Luke. He starts his story
of Jesus with the ADVENT, the coming, of John the Baptist, who will announce
“the way of the Lord.” In quick fashion,
Jesus is suddenly there, along the Jordan River, being baptized by John and
blessed by God the Father, and then moving on into His public ministry, where
He proclaims His preaching theme: “The
time is fulfilled, and the Kingdom of God has come near; repent, and believe in
the good news.”
For the people of Jesus’ day, this TIME
that has come is the fulfillment of Jewish dreams, the TIME when God will show
His special love for the Jews by breaking the bonds of their servitude and
exalting them among the nations. It is
the TIME that they have been waiting for – waiting so long that they had almost
ceased to believe that it could ever come to pass. Suddenly, God comes near to them, among them,
in the person of Jesus of Nazareth, God’s Son, Savior, and invites His people
to REPENT, to open their hearts and change their minds, and believe that God’s
promises are now being fulfilled right before their eyes. Truly this IS the good news.
Today, we who claim Jesus as the Christ,
our Lord and Savior, as we hear those words of Jesus, we understand that He is
speaking not just to His fellow Jewish people then, but to us now, we who are
willing to listen to this good news here and now. Yet, it is a surprising and extraordinary
thing to say – that the Kingdom of God has come near you and that you must
believe it. As this Advent season moves
on to the Christmas – Epiphany season, this good news continues to be surprising. Suddenly, out of the blue, a young girl in
Nazareth gets the news from one of God’s own messengers that SHE has been
chosen by God to become pregnant and deliver into this world the very Son of
God, the Messiah. Who me? Pregnant? Really?
Mary quickly recovers and humbly agrees
to her new and chosen role as God’s own servant, and goes on to rejoice in it
all. But that shock – that of receiving
good, yet unsettling, news – that shock is also something that WE share with
Mary. For this message of Jesus is not
just glad tidings of hope for a weary, war-torn, terrorized world; it also is a
calling, an invitation to turn from all our worldly preoccupations and REPENT,
open our hearts and change our minds.
Something FROM us, then, is required.
And the ADVENT scripture lessons go on to tell us what that is: we need
to step it up, get to work, prepare, watch, wait, turn, open, and change.
The NEW YEAR begins once again with
these words and urgings for our new and continuing journey through the coming
months; that TIME, that ADVENT has come once again. This ADVENT season is a time of joy and
expectation. It is a time of HOPE amid
our various world crises, it is LIGHT come into our self-created darkness, it
is a time of EXPECTATION for One who will,
once again, come among us and deliver us, and it is a time of TRUST in the sure
and certain promises of God. God IS
among us and God has NOT abandoned us.
Yes, the Kingdom of God is among us, with us, embracing us. That is GOOD NEWS, and it reminds us that we,
the faithful, have a way at looking at this troubled world in a GOOD NEWS way
that, to the non-believing world,
looks rather odd and senseless. These
days the world can only say, “Look around you.
Look at this mess we’re in, the economic mess, the natural disasters
mess, the war, violence and terrorist mess, the global-warming mess. It’s all a big mess! Where’s the good news in any of this?”
But into this human, self-centered,
greed-induced mess, comes Jesus Christ, God’s Son, Savior, and announces to
this whole, messed up world, “The Kingdom of God has come near to you; REPENT,
and believe in this good news.” The
angel of the Lord comes
to that young girl, Mary and proclaims “Do not be afraid!” A nervous mother listens to God’s Word and to
the hopes that it engenders in her heart.
A prophet stirs people to action, encouraging their expectation of a
coming age of justice and peace. WAKE UP PEOPLE! The NEWS will be good, even if, like the
people of Jesus’ day, we have almost ceased to believe that it could ever come
to pass. Take heart; be of good courage, for the Lord has come near to us. Dare to believe in this hope of the gospel,
and dare to share it with others. As we
have just heard from our Lord on the Day of Christ the King, continue to bring
that good news of salvation and hope to others by feeding the hungry, giving
drink to the thirsty, clothing the naked, visiting the lonely, imprisoned and
oppressed, caring for the sick and lame, and welcoming the stranger.
Joy to the world, the Lord is come!
Let earth receive its King;
Let ev’ry heart prepare Him room
And heav’n and nature sing.
No more let sin and sorrow grow
Nor thorns infest the ground;
He comes to make His blessings
flow
Far as the curse is found.
He rules the world with truth and grace
And makes the nations prove
The glories of His righteousness
And wonders of His love.
Pastor Malm
A NEW LUTHERAN STUDY BIBLE IS
AVAILABLE
Early in 2009, Augsburg Fortress will be
publishing a Lutheran Study Bible. This
is timed to coincide with our ELCA emphasis on Bible Book of Faith. The biblical text will be the New Revised
Standard Version, and will feature introductions, notes and articles on the
biblical books and texts that are written by over sixty Lutheran pastors and teaching
theologians. This can be a valuable
resource for you to experience the Bible and its message through solid
background material, unique Lutheran insights, and opportunities for faith
reflection. This is a Bible that is
reader-friendly, inviting, and engaging; a study Bible for both youth and
adults who want to encounter Scripture in a fresh, new way.
During December, we have an opportunity
to order this new Study Bible for a significant discount if we
can order ten or more copies. At the
discount, a hard cover version of this Bible will sell for $22.75 each (10
copies or more). A paperback version
will sell for $17.50 (ten copies or more).
If you are interested, please let Pastor Malm know, or contact the
church office (373-8479) on or before Christmas Day, December 25th.
OPPORTUNITIES FOR
HOLY COMMUNION
A MESSAGE FROM PASTOR Spande
You have a new pastor
coming! As I have told you, I have both
spoken to her on the phone and met her in person. My previous interims resulted in
congregations getting fine pastors and I think the string will be
unbroken. .
I expect the transition to go smoothly. Your new pastor will begin July
15. I will be on duty until then. I will not lead worship on July 3. Until very recently we thought the transition
would take place on July 1 and I have said I would conduct worship at
As I look at this schedule I am
increasingly inclined to think that this is good schedule for your new
pastor. July 3 is a holiday
weekend. Hayward Days hardly means
business as usual. July 17 will be a
good day to worship in a “normal” environment to celebrate the arrival of your
new pastor. The installation of your new
pastor may be that day but often it is some weeks later. .
Pastor Bob and I have agreed that
we will exchange pulpits on June 20. I
would like to be at
At this point I will decline further comment on my time with you other than to
say I have truly enjoyed these months.
It has dragged on longer than we expected. I have not been able to do all the things
which a full time pastor would have done.
However, there is no question that the hand of God has been at
work. That is the most important thing.
Just a few
words about other things.
We have moved forward on planning the VBS in August. The major components are already in
place. It will be in
For those who were not at the
congregational meeting it is important to share that your new pastor has chosen
to have their own home and not live in the parsonage. This is getting to be very common. We have owned our home for the past 22
years. No decision has been made on
what to do with the parsonage. It was
intentionally not included on the agenda for calling your new pastor. A committee will study the issues and make a
recommendation for the parish.
Included in this newsletter is
the description of your new pastor that was shared with those at the
congregational meetings. The next step
is to come to worship and meet her in person.
God’s blessings be with you in your new beginning.
Pastor Spande
Our candidate for our joint Hayward- Trondhjem
parishes is Pastor Katie Fick. Katie will be graduating from the seminary
Katie's family is from the Wells area. She is
married to Norbert, who works at Wells Fargo Bank in the cities. He will be
working from home and commuting to the cities as needed, still being employed
by Wells Fargo.
The call committee and joint councils came to the
congregation with a unanimous recommendation. She is outgoing, interested in
us, and anxious to come here. We feel that we are fortunate to have found her.
Katie and Norbert want to buy their own home, so they
are not interested in living in the parsonage. The call committee and the joint
councils feel that this is acceptable.
Katie will begin work here on
July 15, and in the interim we are fortunate to keep Pastor Spande.
Katie and
Norbert, WE WELCOME YOU!

The Hayward Lutheran Church
Council met on
The March
minutes and the Treasurer's report was approved, seconded and passed.
There were no
April minutes because it was not an official meeting. (not
enough people for a quorum)
There was no
secretary's report. There was a motion to approve the treasurer's report. This
was seconded and passed.
We discussed
Sunday's meeting, and the call for a new pastor.
Sonja Johnson
resigned as of
Respectfully submitted, Sonja
Johnson Acting Secretary
OPPORTUNITIES FOR HOLY COMMUNION
Dear Friends in
Christ,
20 hours
of driving each way, in order to get about 3 good hours with the Hospice team
here. Is it heroic or ridiculous? Both?
This has been one of our toughest sites to get going (nothing to do with
distance!), and a meeting back in December, aimed at boosting our 4 “left
behind” hospitals, included this one. We had heard nothing since.
Is the service alive or not?
It is
alive. In fact the team of Nurse Hasanat, Clinician Onesmo, and Chaplain
Octavian has done remarkably. Since January, about 25 people with cancer,
advanced AIDS, and other life-threatening conditions have received holistic and
reconciling care. It is a long ways to go to meet the scale of service
being done by some of our hospitals – Ilembula, for example, serves well over
1000 very sick people. But the Lugala team has done its work with minimal
resources and a lot of volunteerism. Ilembula is one of our 14 sites with
major funding, full-time teams, and a myriad of services.
In the
midst of this work’s major successes and impressive numbers, pray too for the
growth and well-being or our teams at these hospitals that, like Lugala, are
just getting a new start: Karatu, Bulongwa, and Ilula. And grant us
safety and discernment in the travel and supervision.
We hope
to see many of you soon as Rebecca and I travel to the States this coming
month. For those whom we cannot see, remember us in the hectic time of
travel and sharing of experience. Too, for our time of
celebration as we join our daughter Jenny for her wedding to Jason Wagner in
In Christ
Kristopher and
Rebecca Hartwig

I would like to let everyone know
that if you need anything you can contact me via email either through the
church email: hlctlc@msn.com or my
personal email : bobbi.hemenway@yahoo.com,
or you can reach me at home at 402-5398. Don’t be shy, stop and see me at the
office or drop me a line in an email. My office hours are Tues & Thurs
December
7th – Advent II
December
24th – Christmas Eve
December
25th – Christmas Day
December
28th – Christmas I
“CANDLES
AND CAROLS” TO BE PRESENTED
Come and join us On Christmas
Eve, December 24th for a service of hope, peace, joy, and love,
entitled “Candles & Carols”. It will be presented by the joint HLC/TLC
Choir.
This is a cantata with narration
and choir anthems. The congregation will join the choir singing familiar
Christmas carols.

CONFIRMATION CLASSES
Confirmation classes in December and January will be at Oakland Lutheran and February at Trondhjem Lutheran. In March there will be no classes since it is
Lent. In April the classes
will be at Oakland
Lutheran.
UPCOMING EVENTS
The “Big Trip”! The ELCA Youth Gathering next July. Where else than historical New Orleans! 9th through 12th graders are invited, but you must sign up ASAP, because there is only room in the van for 9 students and 2 adults. The cost for the convention, transportation
and housing will be about $600, BUT as other youth trips, the students pay only half. So, your cost will be $300
plus money for meals and souvenirs.
Confirmation Christmas
Caroling for the home bound
Imax and Science Museum in St.
Paul
PARISH TO HAVE
MEN’S ADVENT BREAKFASTS
You
are invited to parish Men’s Advent
Breakfasts held on Tuesday mornings at 7 a.m. from December 2nd
through December 23rd.
A breakfast of pancakes or French toast or some other warm and tasty
goodies will be served. Following the
breakfast there will be a short devotional before you head off to work or
whatever you have planned for the day.
Come and join the fellowship!! Bring a friend or neighbor!!
TRONDHJEM NEWS
DECEMBER JUNE ASSIGNMENTS
Altar Guild Coffee Servers Communion Assistants
Ruth Lukes June 6-Mark & Debbie Brekke Mark & Debbie Brekke
June 20- Sunday School
June 27- Paul & Jill Rockers
Linda Kraushaar December 2 Sunday School Steve
& Linda Kraushaar
December
14 Emil & Bev Prantner
Lectors
Acolyte/Usherss Lectors Ushers
June 6- Ethan Severtson June 6- Linda Kraushaar *Reed Thostenson
June 13 – Madalyn Wangen June 13- Kiven
Lukes Ethan Severtson
June 20- Anna Severtson June 20- Elaine
Lukes Madalyn Wangen
June 27- Reed Thostenson June 27- Steve Kraushaar Emily Brekke
December 7 Linda Kraushaar December
7 Madalyn Wangen
December 14 Steve Kraushaar December
14 Cortney Thostenson & Allison
Wangen
December 21 Jill Krause December
21 Anna Severtson
December 25 Elaine Lukes December
25 Ethan Severtson
December 28 Pastor Malm December
28 Reed Thostenson
DECEMBER JUNE BIRTHDAYS JUNE
ANNIVERSARIES
June 3- Charlotte Lukes June 15- Randy &
Mona Lukes
June 9- Sheldon Lukes
June 29- Kim & Annette Naatz
June 10- Brenda Krause
June 12- Gilma Bothum
June 13- Adam Brekke
June 18- Randy Lukes
DECEMBER ANNIVERSARIES
December 19 Cindy Severtson December 5 Dean & Charlotte Lukes
December
20 Andrew Reese December 13 Dick & Shirley Kraushaar
December
20 Tracy Jahnke
Trondhjem WELCA
met on April 22 at
There were 9
members present. Betty opened the meeting and Elaine gave devotions and
prayer. Secretary's and Treasurer's reports were read.
Betty and Jill
brought their truck down to church on May 2nd and it was loaded with the quilts , soap and health kits for World Relief. They
will deliver them to First Lutheran in
Our June
meeting will be on June 24th at
Secretay,
Elna Mae
Severtson
MEMORIALS
General fund:
In memory of Bob Koch by Barb Prantner.
In memory of
Marge Carlsgaard by Emily Cech, by Barb Prantner
The TLC WELCA will be meeting at the
Wedgewood Cove in
MEMORIALS
GENERAL FUND
In memory of
CAROL MORGAN by Sue Ball
In memory of
OBERT HALDORSON by M/M Don Chapek, M/M Sheldon Lukes, M/M Nordune Haldorson,
M/M Keith Eastman, M/M Emerson J. Yess, M/M B. E. Haldorson, M/M Don Flatness,
M/M Jerry Schewe, M/M Tim Struck, Lila Esse, M/M Douglas Riskedahl, M/M Vernon
Nordaune, M/M David Prantner, Mr. Julius Hansen, Ronald Burkhow, David Hernes,
M/M Clayton Kearns
In memory of
KENNETH MUDRO by M/M Roger Krause, Barb Prantner, M/M Emil Prantner
ALTAR GUILD
In memory of
OBERT HALDORSON by M/M Richard Kraushaar
ORGAN FUND
In memory of OBERT HALDORSON by Barb Prantner
TRONDHJEM WELCA MAKES MANY QUILTS
The Trondhjem WELCA met every Thursday morning at 9
a.m. for nine weeks to tie quilts. They
tied 84 quilts and 10 baby quilts in that time.
Some of the women work all year round making the tops for the
quilts. Some of the quilts are given to
Nursery Crisis Center in Albert Lea & Austin, Salvation Army in Albert Lea
& Austin, Red Cross, Albert Lea & Austin, Blind and Deaf in Faribault,
and some are saved for needs that may arise in the area, and the rest are sent
to World Relief.
MARK YOUR
CALENDARS …..
FOR THE TRONDHJEM
FAMILY CHRISTMAS DINNER AND SUNDAY SCHOOL PROGRAM!!
On Saturday, December 13th
12 Noon – Pot Luck Meal
Those Trondhjem Ladies know how to put on a pot
luck meal!!!
Christmas Program to follow the meal
The Trondhjem Christmas Program is always a “HIT”
Directed by Linda Kraushaar
Always fun for young and “not-so-young”
We the people of
VISION STATEMENT
As a community of faith in Jesus Christ, we
will demonstrate care and compassion for one another and also to a world in
much need. God’s Word and the Holy
Sacraments are central to our life of faith.
As we grow and are nourished by these, we will bring the good news of
God’s forgiveness, life and salvation to those around us.
JUNE ASSIGNMENTS
DECEMBER ASSIGNMENTS
Altar Guild Coffee Servers Ushers
Carole Eggum/ June 6- Ken & Barb
Schroeder/ Mary Anderson *Nick & Jeanne Schermer
Janet Kromminga June 13- Tracy & Sue
Skaar Ken & Barb Schroeder
June 20- Dave &
Paulette Paulson Vern & Pat Frydenlund
June 27- Harold &
DeAnn Kuchera
Marlene
Thompson December 7 Gary
& Paula Broitzman *Dave & Marlene Thompson
Stephanie
Larson December
14 Dave & Marlene Thompson Keith Iverson December
21 Steve & Kaye Tufte Vern & Pat Frydenlund
December
28 Nick & Jeanne Schermer Steve Johnson
Communion
Assistants Lectors Acolyte/Ushers
Vern Frydenlund & June 6- Jean Skaar June 6- Kadie &
Kasie Habana
Neal Skaar June 13- Volunteer
Needed June 13- Lindsay Nelson & Anna
Englin
June 20- Sue Braff June 20- Bethany Tennis
& Shelby Eggum
June 27- Sonja
Johnson June 27- Logan &
Tate Tufte
Vickie Storlie & Todd Enderson
Acolyte/Ushers Lectors
December 7 Shelby Eggum & Bryce Skaar December 7 Shirley Gray
December 14 Caylee Tennis & Anna Englin December
14 Dan Johnson
December 21 Mitchell & Jay Skaar December
21 Volunteer
Needed
December 24 Logan & Tate Tufte December
28 Volunteer
Needed
December 28 Kadie & Kasie Habana
“A MOUSE’S TALE “……..
Is the title of
the Sunday School Christmas Program to be presented on Sunday, December 7th at Hayward
Lutheran.
The program is about the Christmas story told through the eyes of stable
animals on Christmas night.
DECEMBER JUNE BIRTHDAYS
June 5- Janice Habana June 21- Jeanne Schermer
June 6-
June 6- Justin Erickson June 28- Beverly Jenson
June 7- Dave Thompson June 29- Elaine Flusek
June 9- Shirley Olson
June 9- Benjamin Berhow
June 12- Neal Skaar
June 13- Floyd Matson
June 15- Sue Braff
June 16- Janet Kromminga
December 3 Linda Johnson December 20 Patricia Frydenlund
December 4 Eugene Jenson December 22 Paula
Broitzman
December 6 Vernon Lunde December 23 Brie-Ann (Woitas) Tubbs
December 10 Erwin (Red) Larson December 24 Jill
Erickson
December 12 Shirley Gray December 26 John Habana
December 14 Bernhardt Anderson December 28 Isabella
Nelson
December 14 Dawn Jenson December
29 Wayne Kromminga
December
29 Travis Jacobson
DECEMBER ANNIVERSARIES
June Anniversaries
June 8- Greg
& Carolyn Matson
June 8- Steve
& Karen Sorenson
June 12- Jim
& Nancy Skaar
June 20- Dean
& Kellie Anderson
June 21- Gary
& Paula Broitzman
June 22- John
& Sharon Malm
A.
December
9 Vernon
& Bev Lunde
1.
December
27 Kendall
& Lila Johnson
1.
December
30 Paul
& Min Westland
1.
MEMORIALS
General Fund
In memory of Alice Enderson by M/M Paul
Westland
Brie-Anne (Woitas) Tubbs was a
member of the
MEMORIALS
GENERAL FUND
In memory of OBERT HALDORSON by M/M Neal Skaar,
Camilla Frydenlund
In memory of WILFORD QUAM by M/M David Paulson
BUILDING FUND
In memory of OBERT HALDORSON by LaVonne Williams
In memory of WILFORD QUAM by M/M Curtis Larson
CEMETERY FUND
In memory of ANDREW & INDIANA SANDERSON, MIKAEL
& DORA CHRISOPHERSON, IRENE REYNOLDS by M/M Harry Dunn
ALTAR GUILD
In memory of ANDREW & INDIANA SANDERSON, MIKAEL
& DORA CHRISTOPHERSON, IRENE REYNOLDS by M/M Harry Dunn
WELCA NEWSS
PURPOSE STATEMENT
As a
community of women created in the image of God, called to discipleship in Jesus
Christ, and empowered by the Holy Spirit, we commit ourselves to grow in faith,
affirm our gifts, support one another in our
callings, engage in ministry and action, and promote healing and wholeness in the church,
the society and the world
ALTAR GUILD
WOULD YOU LIKE TO CONTRIBUTE
FRESH FLOWERS?
Fresh
flowers for the altar are a beautiful addition to our worship service. If you wish to furnish flowers, all you need
to do is call the Altar Guild president, Marlene Thompson (373-3895). The Guild will purchase and display the
flowers for you, and if you wish, will put an acknowledgement in the Sunday
bulletin. Cost of the flowers is usually
about $20. Your generosity and support
are greatly appreciated. Thank you.
GOOD EARTH VILLAGE OPPORTUNITIES
Women's Day
Cost:
$25/person
We had a great time at Women's
Day in 2009 - hope you can join us in 2010!
Join us for a day that is just
for women - a day filled with learning and laughter, fun
and fellowship!
Tentative
Schedule of Events
For youth entering grades 1– 6 in the fall.
Special VBS for
3, 4 & 5 year old Preschoolers!
3-year-old preschoolers must come
with adult
AND be 3 years
of age by
Space is
limited this year for preschoolers!
Register Early!
A team of Christ-centered
counselors
from Okoboji Bible Camp
will be leading the week’s festivities!
Cost: $20
per/youth
Maximum, $45
per/family
Registration/health
forms available in the church office.
Every child can attend a fun and
exciting week of VBS!
Sponsorships
are available.
Would you like to SPONSOR a CHILD attending
VBS? Fundraisers and sponsorships
help make VBS affordable for everyone. Actual VBS cost is $45
per/youth and after 30 youth it is $29 per/youth. Any amount is
appreciated.
Welcome the Okoboji Team
with Pizza &
Ice Cream Sundaes at
501 S. Washington,
Trinity Hall Kitchen

9:00 AM
to
At

Potluck Picnic and Program by the kids
Meet at the
Children will
share what they have been learning.
Bring your
utensils and a large dish to share.
Beverage
provided.
WELCA TO HAVE
CHRISTMAS BAKE SALE
The Hayward
WELCA will have their Christmas Bake Sale and morning coffee on Saturday,
December 6th beginning at 8 a.m.
There will be a drawing at 11 a.m. for a Quilt Chest donated by Louie
Larson and a Quilt donated by Greg and Carolyn Matson. The quilt and quilt chest are displayed in
the social hall at HLC
HAYWARD WELCA
DONATES QUILTS TO GOOD EARTH VILLAGE QUILT AUCTION
On August 17, 2008 Good Earth
Village held a Quilt Auction. The
Hayward WELCA donated several quilts for the auction and they sold for a total
of $545. Diane Ladlie donated a quilt
and that sold for $210. Kay Noland Smith
donated some quilts and runners and they sold for a total of $415. The total credited to Hayward WELCA came to
$1,170. Thank you to the women who made
these donations to help the work of Good Earth Village.
ALTAR GUILD
WOULD YOU LIKE TO CONTRIBUTE FRESH FLOWERS?
Fresh flowers for the altar are a beautiful
addition to our worship service. If you
wish to furnish flowers, all you need to do is call the Altar Guild president,
Marlene Thompson (373-3895). The Guild
will purchase and display the flowers for you, and if you wish, will put an
acknowledgement in the Sunday bulletin.
Cost of the flowers is usually about $20. Your generosity and support are greatly
appreciated. Thank you.
THIS ‘N’ THAT
PARISH NEWS DEADLINE
The deadline
for turning in articles and calendar information for the Parish News is the 20th
of each month. Thank you for your
cooperation.
ADDRESS
CHANGE? If you or someone you know has had a change of
address or phone number within this past year, please inform the Church Office
as soon as possible. Thank you for your
help!
GOLD, COMMON SENSE AND FUR
My husband and I had been happily
(most of the time) married for five years, but hadn’t been blessed with a
baby. I decided to do some serious
praying and promised God that if He would give us a child, I would be a perfect
mother, love it with all my heart and raise it with His word as my guide. God answered my prayers and blessed us with a
son. The next year God blessed us with
another son. The following year, He
blessed us with yet another son. The
year after that we were blessed with a daughter.
My husband thought we’d been blessed
right into poverty. We now had four
children, and the oldest was only four years old. I learned never to ask God for anything
unless I meant it. As a minister once
told me, “If you pray for rain, make sure you carry an umbrella.”
I began reading a few verses of the
Bible to the children each day as they lay in their cribs. I was off to a good start. God had entrusted me with four children and I
didn’t want to disappoint Him.
I tried to be patient the day the
children smashed two dozen eggs on the kitchen floor searching for baby
chicks. I tried to be understanding when
they started a hotel for homeless frogs in the spare bedroom, although it took
me nearly two hours to catch all twenty-three frogs.
When my daughter poured ketchup all
over herself and rolled up in a blanket to see how it felt to be a hot dog, I
tried to see the humor rather than the mess.
In spite of changing over twenty-five
thousand diapers, never eating a hot meal and never sleeping for more than
thirty minutes at a time, I still thank God daily for my children.
While I couldn’t keep my promise to
be a perfect mother, I didn’t even come close.
I did keep my promise to raise them in the Word of God.
I knew I was missing the mark just a
little when I told my daughter we were going to church to worship God, and she
wanted to bring a bar of soap along to “wash up” Jesus too.
Something was lost in the
translation when I explained that God gave us everlasting life, and my son
thougth it was generous of God to give us his “last wife.”
My proudest moment came during the
children’s Christmas pageant. My
daughter was playing Mary, two of my sons were shepherds and my youngest son
was a wise man. This was their moment to
shine. My five-year-old shepherd had
practiced his line, “We found the babe wrapped in swaddling clothes.” But he was nervous and said, “The baby was
wrapped in wrinkled clothes.”
My four-year-old, ‘Mary’ said,
“That’s not ‘wrinkled clothes,’ silly.
That’s dirty, rotten clothes.” A
wrestling match broke out between Mary and the shepherd and was stopped by an angel,
who bent her halo and lost her left wing.
I slouched a little lower in my seat
when Mary dropped the doll representing Baby Jesus, and it bounced down the
aisle crying, “Mama, Mama.” Mary grabbed
the doll, wrapped it back up and held it tightly as the wise men arrived. My other son stepped forward wearing a
bathrobe and a paper crown, knelt at the manger and announced, “We are the
three wise men, and we are bringing gifts of gold, common sense and fur.”
The congregation dissolved into
laughter, and the pageant got a standing ovation. “I’ve never enjoyed a Christmas program as
much as this one,” Pastor Brian laughed, wiping tears from his eyes. “For the rest of my life, I’ll never hear the
Christmas story without thinking of gold, common sense and fur.”
“My children are my pride and my joy
and my greatest blessing,” I said as I dug through my purse for an aspirin.
I Corinthians 13 – A Christmas
Version
If I decorate my house perfectly
with plaid bows, strands of twinkling lights and shiny balls, but do not show
love to my family, I’m just another decorator.
If I slave away in the kitchen,
baking dozens of Christmas cookies, preparing gourmet meals and arranging a
beautifully adorned table at mealtime, but do not show love to my family, I’m
just another cook.
If I work at the soup kitchen, carol
in the nursing home and give all that I have to charity, but do not show love
to my family, it profits me nothing.
If I trim the spruce with shimmering
angels and crocheted snowflakes, attend a myriad of holiday parties and sing in
the choir’s cantata but do not focus on Christ, I have missed the point.
Love stops the cooking to hug the
child. Love sets aside the decorating to
kiss the spouse. Love is kind, though
harried and tired. Love doesn’t envy
another’s home that has coordinated Christmas China and table linens. Love doesn’t yell at the kids to get out of
the way, but is thankful they are there to be in the way. Love doesn’t give only to those who are able
to give in return, but rejoices in giving to those who can’t. Love bears all things, believes all things,
hopes all things, endures all things.
Love never fails. Video games
will break, pearl necklaces will be lost, golf clubs will rust, but giving the
gift of love will endure.
1.
WHO STARTED CHRISTMAS?
A woman was out Christmas shopping with her two
children. After many hours of looking at
row after row of toys, and everything else imaginable, and after hours of
hearing both her children asking for everything they saw on those many shelves,
she finally made it to the elevator with her two kids.
She was feeling what so many of us
feel during the holiday season time of the year – overwhelming pressure to go
to every party, every housewarming, taste all the holiday food and treats, getting
that perfect gift for every single person on our shopping list, making sure we
don’t forget anyone on our card list, and the pressure of making sure we
respond to everyone who sent us a card.
Finally the elevator doors opened
and there was already a crowd in the car.
She pushed her way into the car and dragged her two kids in with her and
all the bags of stuff. When the doors
closed she couldn’t take it anymore and stated, “Whoever started this whole
Christmas thing should be found, strung up and shot.”
From the back of the car everyone
heard a quiet calm voice respond, “Don’t worry; we already crucified Him.” For the rest of the trip down the elevator it
was so quiet you could have heard a pin drop.
Don’t forget this year to keep the
One who started this whole Christmas thing in your every thought, deed,
purchase, and word. If we all did it,
just think of how different this whole world would be.